Owen left a note on August 27, 2010

Well, I’m a guy and I’m sure he doesn’t think that you’re pissed off with him.

Smile, make conversation, try and say hi first. Just little things, we’re not as stupid as we come across. I’m sure he’ll realise you like him sooner or later.

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Aly left a note on August 27, 2010

HEYY ISI! Awwh! Oh! I like blog like this one! About love/boys

When I started to read the blog I knew you liked that guy You should talk with him more and hang out more. The more you know him the more close you’ll become It is not hard to be nice :P When you say ‘Hi’ to him. Smile when you say it and wave at him. That’s what I always do.

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Beth left a note on August 27, 2010

I think the first thing you need to understand is that guys are just as ‘scared’ of showing they like a girl as we are. So, if you really like like this guy, you have to become his friend first. Don’t tell him you like him, let him get to know you and you cant get to know him. If he does have ‘feelings’ for you, then he needs to feel comfortable enough to tell you. Sadly, I’ve found that the majority of guys wont let on they like you unless they’re pretty sure you like them too. Just take things slow and let you two form a friendship first. Its important that you dont push him into being friends if he’s not interested. To start, invite him to hang out or do something with you and a group of people you both know. Just be yourself and see what happens. (Y)

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August 28th, 2010 at 11:25 am

@Beth, Thank you so much for the advice. I have to say it really does help a lot. I will try some of the things you said like getting to know each other first. If I tell him that I like him, I’ll probably scare him off. I guess the reason why i would do that is because my friends always push me to do that. Once they find out i like a guy, they automatically think they should us up and we should start going out when i know nothing about the guy and vice versa.

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Owen left a note on August 27, 2010

I know the feeling! There’s this girl who I really like, I’ve had so many chances to start a conversation, or say an enthusiastic hi :P I don’t know what happens to me, it’s weird.

But it’s too late now, she’s with a close friend of mine now, I guess I’ve missed my chance :(

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AALLYOOOHHHHH left a note on August 27, 2010

Hey! Yes I have uniforms! Most of the school in my city have uniforms. It is not that bad you know. Sometimes we have specialk day when we dont wear our uniforms.

Oh! I really like to make new friends! I know all the 7th, 8th and 9th graders and they all know me. I like to know new people even if they’re younger. You know, at school I am known as the gossip girl (I know everything that happens in school, the rumors..), the Bieber fan and the girl who know everyone. I’m very friendly.

You don’t have to be shy to talk to this guy. Risk it all :P

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Tiffany left a note on August 27, 2010

I think that you need to just talk to him. more. Be more comfortable with him. I do not think anything is wrong with you. I think you are just scared of making a wrong move, so maybe if you were not afraid it will work out? I think you should just talk to him, and find more interest? I am very talkative when i am comfortable and usually I talk to guys first. Maybe don’t wait till he says hi?

What’s your middle name? (a question) haha I think i would need to get to know you better first

I don’t need to backup the database? everyones confusing me -_____- or maybe i am confusing everyone else? haha and yea i went by so many names (ie Tiffany, Tiff, Tj, Evtiff)

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Katarina left a note on August 28, 2010

:P Question blogs are fun. Glad you’re doing one too! Here are some questions for you:

1) How do you come up with the inspiration for a lot of your designs?
2) What made you get into web design, and what about it do you enjoy?
3) What qualities do you look for when it comes to a person?
4) Do you prefer the computer over the TV? (Depending on which one keeps you “more entertained.”)

Now on to your blog:
At least he acknowledged the fact that you sent him that message, and that you noticed how he treated you. As for coming off nicer? I’d say just smile. It doesn’t have to be a huge “:D” smile, but a small smile will come off as nice, but not so nice as you’re jumping for his approval. That’s what I would do, anyways.

Zac Efron is quite cute . LOL. I remember drooling – not literally – over him when I was younger and High School Musical had just been released. Him and Vanessa Hudgens were “the thing.” xD

Vampires Suck had funny parts, but they were all in the preview. That’s it. & I agree: The Sorcerer’s Apprentice had a horrible main character. Nicolas Cage was good in it though :P.

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Scott left a note on August 28, 2010

Maybe facebook message him again, you seem more able to say what you need or want via facebook. But start off with saying something to him, like when he says whats up, be like nearly miss my ride to school, is my hair a mess, or I think I messed up my make up, so he has to look at you and tell you its perfect. Just flirt and maybe ask him to hang at the mall or something.

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Irina left a note on August 28, 2010

I know the feeling Well actually all you have to do is say Hi to him and then tell him something like…can you believe what i saw/happend to me/etc. yesterday? And you guys start talking and it gets really easy I hope it helps.
And what kind of questions?Questions like…
What would you buy with 10$ ?
or love questions like…
Did you ever do something embarassing in front of the guy you like?
I hope i help

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August 28th, 2010 at 9:34 am

@Irina, Sometimes i really wish i was more confident. On monday, i will try a different approach though. I won’t just say “hi” in tiny voice as usual.
Thanks for the questions.

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Clarisse left a note on August 28, 2010

I used to seem angry a lot too, especially to certain people. Just try not to overthink things. Don’t be nervous about it, and you’re probably gonna see yourself being more comfortable around him, hence seeming less angry. That’s just my guess though; I’m not good with boy advice, haha.

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Do left a note on August 28, 2010

Hey girl Me and boys what do I know! XD haha You should really talk to him more I don’t have much to say about it.. you gotta get over your fear and talk to him! He will be so happy! Soooo questions questions.. Name one place in the world you’d like to go.. ermmmm if you would be an animal which one would you be XD maybe bird :P my sexy birdo! haha OMG another sexy question.. if you were on a deserted island, and could only bring 5 things, what would you bring.. or is 5 too many? maybe 3. XD okay that’s all I have right now :P love you xx

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Tuly left a note on August 28, 2010

Cute site ^_____________^

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Marina left a note on August 28, 2010

Thank you for believing me (: it means a lot. Anyways, you pointing it out reminded me that I should create an explanation page on my site about this until McAfee approves my site. I’ve already sent them an email. Thanks, sweetie -hugs-

Anyways, I totally understand how you feel. Hmm I usually will just to keep it casually. Don’t make it seem like he is affecting you (: Pick a thought that always keep calm so whenever you see him, picture that thought.

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Katarina left a note on August 28, 2010

Well, question blogs knock off two blogs with one topic :). It’s great one inspiration-less days. LOL. 

I hate the girls who giggle like mad when a boy talks to them. I mean, c’mon. That works in the movies, but in real life it doesn’t work worth a crap. Good luck though, Isi :).

Haha, I used to make fun of Zac Efron for his gap :P. But he was always a cute guy. For sure. I’m a big Megan Fox fan, actually :). Always have been. 

LOL, Isi :). There were only two National Treasure movies. But he was awesome in them. My mom wants to marry him xD.

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Nancy left a note on August 28, 2010

I always tell myself that life is too precious, and that some people would do anything to be alive. And the others are wasting their life… committing suicide. I know that I don`t wanna cut myself. I hate wounds in general :O! I don`t like pain :P!

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Jad left a note on August 28, 2010

Hey Isi, reading your blog, that’s so funny when a hatred ship, ends up into a friendship, this usually happened to me.
Anyway don’t worry, you are very nice, and I don’t think you have much to do more than smiling and looking natural, try starting a conversation first, and when he’s on a bad mood try cheering him up =D
so yeah..=D
I know right, since I’m a guy..
Anyway, have a nice day, cyah x

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Tiffany left a note on August 28, 2010

I always say stupid stuff… Like when I am talking haha So i get ya! lol Like i am pretty blunt and stuff so i say stuff that’s on my mind too much i think lol I guess it’s a good but equally bad thing lol. But just have fun! Anyway good luck with the guy:)

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Gabi left a note on August 28, 2010

Your new layout looks so good! I love the little content link guys and the color scheme.

With a situation like the one you’re having with that guy, you’re probably looking deeper into it than he is. I do that all the time. I do something I think made me seem mean or strange or whatever and I can’t stop thinking about it for the longest time. In the end it turns out the person didn’t interpret the situation that way at all.

If you’re really nervous around him, maybe at least try to smile at first. I would say just try to be more confident around him, but I know that’s easier said than done, so start small. Or maybe you could post something friendly to him on his facebook? It’s 100x easier to talk to people online. That way he’ll know you don’t dislike him.

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Lucien left a note on August 28, 2010

I absolutely love your latest premade layout.
It’s a pity you did it only for wordpress, though; I would’ve have loved to use it (since I know zero about Wp). :cry:

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Emiley left a note on August 28, 2010

I don’t go to school, I just work.

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Do left a note on August 28, 2010

Hey yay can’t wait to know about your day! and omg glad you like the questions I really can’t wait to see your answers! xxxxx

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Kayt left a note on August 28, 2010

ok, I’ll try looking for that IP, could take some time though.
Ohh, where is that? I’ve never heard of kings island. the first time i went on a roller coaster / a ride that went upside down was when i was 17 lol.

well he was like that with you at first, so im sure he doesnt take it to heart that you come off as ‘not caring’ when you do. maybe try talking to him first? i know talking to a guy is nerve wracking at times, but sometimes its up to you to start something. try to be more ‘happy’ in expressions. I’m the same way when it comes to guys i like.. im very stand offish because im afraid that they dont feel the same lol. I hope things get a little better

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kissliin left a note on August 28, 2010

Always take it easy. Don’t rush everything. I felt the same way when I liked a guy who I don’t talk to a lot. But try making a conversation or try making the conversation last longer. Talking is always the first step to something, right? Good luck
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I wasn’t going to get my hair done, but since its my friend who’s doing it for me, I decided I should. And its free I picked like a reddish brown colour. It doesn’t really show much unless there’s light.

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Coryl left a note on August 28, 2010

The only advice I can give is this: Take a deep breath, and treat him like any other person. I think girls get a bit too obsessive with crushes, boyfriends, and the like, and they drown themselves in it all, exaggerating everything.

Questions? Alright. (Sorry if any are repeated; I haven’t read any of the other comments.)
How did you first start graphic design and blogging?
Where do you get your inspiration from?
Pick a colour: red, orange, yellow, green, blue, purple, pink, black, white. Why did you pick it?

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I don’t really make friends with those that only think of themselves, regardless of if they put others down or not. I get too irritated around them and want to slap them. I’ve gotten into a few arguments with this one girl I know. She only talks about things that matter to her, and anything that she does, or what she’s accomplished. Her and her texting are what really piss me off. She sits there, taking up two places at the cafeteria table, texting and talking about boys that we don’t care about or know, who are older than us, that she thinks she can get with.
…Sorry for ranting. D:

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Lizz left a note on August 28, 2010

just try smiling. it’ll be easier after that.

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Sage left a note on August 29, 2010

You may want to feel him out a bit … When you feel comfortable enough ask him some general questions to get a feel for what he likes and dislikes and one day you could strike up a conversation that is away from school and more about what he likes. Men love when you ask them questions, it makes them feel important …

I love this layout … It’s awesome. Impressed (Y)

A question? Is Isi short for another name? or is Isi your name that people call you?

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Shriya left a note on August 29, 2010

Aw, it is so cute. Hm. Now the question goes deep. Why do you think you can not talk nicely to the guy? Is it because actually you don’t like him and have some issues because of the hatred thingy, coz such things do stay at the back of the mind for a long time or maybe you actually like like him, if you know what I mean, and are really nervous?
Okay, do I make a bit of sense?

Re:
One word comments are okay once or maximum, twice. Otherwise, it is just a turn off. I have some friends who are nice people, but they are not in the habit of reading blogs and it is really irritating. I type a huge comment and they reply in a couple of words.

You’re right. Being sick sucks. I don’t feel like doing anything. Even going online seems like a chore. eww

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Georgina left a note on August 29, 2010

Aw Isi, it’s probably a better thing that you’re being bitter towards him, THOUGH, if you like him — well, you know guys, they’re dumb and sometimes they just need to be told to their face that they are liked. Just make a bit more of an effort to say hi and make conversation! It can’t be that bad.

I mean, you were the one who confronted him on Facebook so I’m sure you could do it again in a nice way. I can understand why you did what you did since he became friends with everyone but you. Maybe he secretly likes you and doesn’t want to step up and be friends? Doubtful I know, but I think you should try and talk to him more.

You’re welcome! I like the darkness, it’s really nice.

Haha I love guys in boxers.

Thanks! I got a heap of comments today, I had 40 but now I’m coming down to 10 which isn’t so bad.

Thank you for the comment on my layout! *Hugs* Vicky said that too; she didn’t expect for it to be a layout! XD

I know what you mean, but I used to do art in high school so I appreciate what’s under all that. It might just look like splatters but a painting like that can tell a lot. Though there are some that look a mess, some of it is stuff that people would pay for because it’s so original! The same way people pay to look at that stuff.

LOL I’m not going camping, I was just mentioning it. Last time I went on a camp was in high school.

Good luck with the homework!

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Shur left a note on August 29, 2010

Aha, I know what you mean. Most strangers have a hard time understanding me as well :s . They get the impression that I’m just unfriendly and don’t bother making new friends, but I’m far from that. I’ve learn to smile a lot more, around unknown people and even those quite similar to your ‘D’ guy. My advice would be smiling . Cause it’s better to not say a thing if you really have nothing on your mind, lest you end up saying something you’d regret XD . And not looking his way at all either wouldn’t be good, so just smile. Don’t avoid eye contact!

Aw, thanks for the comment. I haven’t been updating the site a lot, all I ever do these days is return comments, aha. What you said means a lot! };{

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Pauline left a note on August 29, 2010

I like this blog. I really feel your feelings Isi.

Basically, I think you like him. Alot. And you want him to talk to you and show his concern. I’m not pro at boys but I’m okay with them and I guess sometimes I’m like you, looking mad and never smile.

I want to put it up but I’m so lazy! I’ve just been playing around with the Pen tool and blending options aha. Photoshop is great!

I have them family games, like Wii sports resort, mario kart wii. Bleh, I’m starting to use it more~

Glad you like the song.

Great that there’s no drama, I hope my school starts like that. Drama sucks.

I love the new layout!

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September 6th, 2010 at 9:36 am

@Pauline,
Lena you need a new host. Vicky closed. :( I started talking to him and now the feelings are slowly going away. How ironic is that? I was soo in love with him and now it’s nothing.

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Pam left a note on August 29, 2010

Me too. Or I wish I had one of those watches from Bernard’s Watch. If you’ve never seen it, basically it can stop and rewind time and stuff. I wish for things way too much, it’s probably not good for me. :3

I think you probably just need to try and relax around him and treat him like you would any of your other friends.

You should try to make conversation about school or the weather or something. You never know, he coould be thinking the same as you. He could be nervous too.

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Esther left a note on August 29, 2010

Hey from this it just sounds like you’re kind of shy? :/ Well my advice would be to just imagine that it’s one of your other friends that you’re saying hi to. Or what else you could do is try to talk to him when you’re in a group with your friends? That way you might feel more relaxed and confident

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Lucien left a note on August 29, 2010

As you can get, I see the site normally, now.

I took down the premade; thanks again for making a PHP version of it.

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dezzi left a note on August 29, 2010

youull haw to push through being nervous i know after talking to him more youltl be more comterable butt just ask more questions because you may not get the chance to let him know you like him because he thin ks you dont care.

butt yeahh when i went to payless i wanted like every shoe lol

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Meredith left a note on August 29, 2010

Thanks and Yeah, using the smilies was how I found it.. haha :P You could try adding a semi transparent background image, so there would still be the noise but you could still see the boxes a little better?

She is bi, but she’s not asahmed of it because they’ve been dating for almost a year. We all know, and have all known for awhile & we all love her girlfriend, and say she’s free to come hang out as well.. but she still just lies to us :/

As for the guy, just talk to him a bit more. You’re nervous so its understandable, so just push past it & ask him how his weekend was or something.

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Mandi left a note on August 29, 2010

I think it’s fine you don’t seem ecstatic to talk to him, it’s good to play hard to get. That will make him try to make you smile eventually probably. I think you’re just fine.
The person he was staying with pushed him, apparently he was a mad drunk :/

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September 6th, 2010 at 8:52 am

@Mandi, Aww comments are closed. I hope he’s okay. Stupid drunk people!

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Shellz left a note on August 29, 2010

Finally, your site works for me! I’ve been trying to visit, but it kept saying…”problem with loading page”.. :’( (lol) I think it was just my internet though. x__x

Well, since he says “What’s up Isi”, then you just say… “What’s up [insert name here]“. The nervousness thing is usually because you don’t want to look stupid or something in front of a person you want to impress, perhaps?

If you like the guy, then just message him on facebook and try to start up a conversation, just start off by saying..
“what’s up, how are your classes going?” or something. Invite him to go somewhere with you. The only way to get more comfortable with a person (for some people), is to hang around them more, you seem like that type of person.

I hope that helps.
Good luck with whatever you do though! <33
P.S. LOVE the new hosting page layout.
And the 3rd wordpress theme is my fav!

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Shellz left a note on August 30, 2010

I forgot to ask you a question! (lol)

Are you on Facebook or Twitter more?

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Sapphire left a note on August 30, 2010

#1: BE YOURSELF!!! (Y) (Y) (Y) (Y) (Y) !!!
if that’s how you look as *yourself*, then i’m sure he thinks it’s cute but if he looked/spoke at/with you the way you look/speak at him, will you get the message that he’s interested? of course not. my advice–> just think of something really funny ;D you’ll smile instantly! screw your nervousness! it’s now or never go for it! what’ve you got to lose?

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Dani left a note on August 30, 2010

It’s a new school year, which is an excuse for a new start! All you have to do is talk more, let your conversations last longer. I’m sure if he makes the effort to say hey to you, he doesn’t think you don’t give a damn!

Lockerz sounds pretty cool and I think I may sign up. I don’t use USD so maybe getting ptz will be a problem…Hmm. I don’t know, I’ll have a look at it, I’m sure if I can’t sign up because I don’t use the currency it will say!

Thank you! My email is danipoynterjudd_@hotmail.co.uk if you’d be kind enough to send an invite.
I still don’t know who it was. In the end the account got removed and the pictures got taken down so that’s all that really matters…She learnt her lesson!

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kaitlin left a note on August 30, 2010

Start off my just smiling, or you say Hey first instead of him (: Or try and not be so nervous around him, loosen up around him a bit, it’s easier said than done, I know, but it’ll be worth it in the end (:

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Eunjung left a note on August 30, 2010

Ahh, I forget when it was but I stumbled across your site. I was fascinated by the layout. You make wonderful layouts. They’re always such eye candy.

Anywho, I agree with you on your title. Boys are indeed quite frustrating. You can’t live with them and can’t live without them. I think it was quite brave of you to confront him. Honest to goodness I probably would have just ignored them until one of my meddling friends would interfere.

It’s normal to be nervous around your crush. I know I’m a total disaster when I’ve been around my crush. All coherent thoughts go out of your mind and you freak and become conscious of everything you’re doing. Try to relax and smile. Make small talk, if it gets awkward well then plunge into a new subject. Guys shouldn’t be expecting perfection.

Oooh, question blog next. That sounds exciting. Hmmm, let’s see if I can come up with any good questions.

1. Do you enjoy reading? If so what is your favorite book and why?
2. If you could live in a country, which country would you choose and why?
3. I saw that you love shopping. What store do you like to shop in the most?

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September 6th, 2010 at 7:39 am

@Eunjung, Aww thank you soo much. That really means a lot. I keep getting an Internal Server Error when I try to comment your site. :/

Boys are really frustrating. They are so hard to read sometimes. My friends do tend to interfere, at times I get mad because they I like will never see me as more than just a friend. I answered all of your questions.

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Mutay left a note on August 30, 2010

Awwww Hun! You’re the cutest haha. Basically just act natural, (well as natural as you can be when you’re nervous). Ask him how his summer was, what he got up to, etc etc
Try and joke around a little. Also don’t just jump in, play it cool. Just be closer as friends look at me talking, like I know what to do haha.
Questions – what is the most exciting thing happening in your life right now?

P.S. Always smile doll! I’m sure you have a beautiful smile let this guy and everyone else it. If you smile you will always get one in return!

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ida left a note on August 31, 2010

hey Isi! (: the nervous feeling, the butterflies and the happiness inside you; the feeling of being in love. well you should smile to him, try to make conversations, talk a lot, be nice, and most important; be yourself! hmm i’m never been good in love, but this is what i usually do when i wanna have more contact with a boy i like.

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Sofia left a note on August 31, 2010

I don’t know why I’m trying to giving you advice on this because I’m like you when it comes to guys hahah (: o_06
If I was you I’d try to smile when he says ‘hey’ and then answer ‘hey! how are you’ or something like that x]
haha yeah I suck giving advice :@
Good luck with the guy Isi! XD
:L :L :L

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Tuly left a note on September 1, 2010

We use MYSQL.
Its a database for our graphics and resources, where we put our things, and it puts in 99mockingbirds, by auto.

By that, we can also count our previews and downloads.

If that’s too much, since MYSQL is hard, you can google download counters, and they will show you many.

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Sean left a note on September 2, 2010

Sit next to him and send him a friend request on FB. Comment on the things he posts and whatnot.

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ida left a note on September 2, 2010

that’s great! (: amazing how much a little smile can do, smiles always bright up my days : DD i’m sure you’ll relax more soon, and then you’ll be able to have more conversations.

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ida left a note on September 2, 2010

and thank you for your nice comment! (: i was wondering if you’re acceting affilates/links? okay if not (:

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Michaela left a note on September 2, 2010

Thanks for applying for advertising. Your button will be up until october 1st. Be sure to add me as well.

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alisha left a note on September 2, 2010

hellooo i love your layout

sorry i have not been commenting i am soo ill :(

i loves your layout :P

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alisha left a note on September 2, 2010

im getting better slowly i have a tooth infection and the infection has moved to my belly to so i have like a tooth infection and a belly infection now :(

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ida left a note on September 2, 2010

ohh okay, that’s too bad for him! but friends are good too. that’s greate! (: i add you to my list now! : D

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Brittney left a note on September 2, 2010

Hi, hi! Love the new layoutttt-
letting you know that your ad is up and running for two months at crittey.net and that time period will end on November 2nd! Thank you!

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Ashley left a note on September 3, 2010

Well, he’s clearly not going to think you like him when the signals you’re giving him, you really just need to be more open and more approachable. Pay attention to your body language around him, make a conscious effort to be nicer make conversation, but don’t be too into him too quickly because that will surely run him off. Just be yourself and be calm, but treat him like someone you actually care about. Obviously, it’s hard for you to do anything of that right now, so you’ll have to try really hard and really work at it.

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Jenny left a note on September 3, 2010

I think you already know how to come across nicer…at least what I gather from your blog. Smile, and maybe answer a teeny bit more to his question “What’s up?”. Not too much, just something like “Nothing much but I’m pretty good.” And return the question.

My friends and I sometimes play a “game”. What happens is with a boy we like (or just kind of like) we count how many “encounters” we have (including ones online) and who starts the chat. The ideal situation is to have chats started by both parties. So if he says “hi” first for 3 days straight, throw in your own “hi”. Just to seem interested.

Chatting on FB is nice and easy. Plus it gives fodder for conversation in school. Take it easy. Take it slow. And yes, you’re right, mentioning that FB message again is probably a less than brilliant idea.

Good luck! Oh and helps to have a brash friend (or semi-friend). Just to get the “message” across when your friendship’s moving along nicely.

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